Heterosexual Guilt

I suffer from heterosexual guilt. I am currently with a man (as most/all of you know), and I feel guilty for the privilege that affords me. I desire women more, have always desired women more, but I happen to have fallen in love with a man. Deeply, passionately in love. He’s heteroflexible, basically, but not [...]

December 31st, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Home for the Holidays

So, I’m up in Juneau, Alaska (where I grew up) visiting my family for the holidays. I haven’t been much near a computer, only briefly and hardly checked my email, and that’s why I have not posted in a while! I’ll be back home on Sunday, and will probably make a post or [...]

December 27th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Birthday Fuck

It was Master’s birthday weekend this past one, plus the end of finals week for me, and he got his MCSE last week as well, so we did a minor amount of partying on Saturday night. Sunday was his actual birthday, though, and that was fun. We fucked on Saturday night/Sunday morning, but [...]

December 17th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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A Typical Worknight Fucking

Not last night, but two nights ago.
It was rather vanilla in practice, but he was in charge of course, and it was delicious, as our sex always is.
It was a nice quickie before we went to sleep, which is our typical routine during the work/school week when our roommates are in the house (often in [...]

December 12th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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The Importance of Identity Politics and How They Have Shaped the Queer Rights Movement

Ever since the academic appearance of the concept of homosexuality in 1869 homosexuals and others with non-normative sexual orientations and non-normative genders have been studied and attempted to be defined (Faderman, 41). Many different definitions and labels have been produced to appeal to different factions of non-normative sexual identities, some of which have been taken [...]

December 8th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Rhetorical Gymnastics

Postmodernism is “ultimately meaningless rhetorical gymnastics” according to some.
Yes, yes it is. And I love it.
This was posted on another site, apparently this is what it used to say before a rewrite?
“Postmodernism’s proponents are often criticised for a tendency to indulge in exhausting, verbose stretches of rhetorical gymnastics, which critics feel sound important but are [...]

December 4th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Power Drag

This is just a draft, I’m working on organizing my ideas of this, once I get it down perfectly I’m going to post it to communities and such.
This concept was actually the idea of Lisa Diamond, Ph.D, a professor of mine here at the University of Utah. We were talking about BDSM in my [...]

November 29th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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The Sacred and Shameless Sexcast (Kinkcast?)

I’m going to re-start my sexcast, and possibly rename it as well. It has been over a year since I did an episode, and I miss it, and have decided it’s something I need to get going again. I bought both sacredkinkcast.org and sacredsexcast.org (the latter is just a pointer to the former) [...]

November 28th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Long and Winding Road

I suggested to Master today making a few manuals or perhaps just one manual with seperate sections, inspired by slave,kate’s last post. I think that would be a fabulous idea, and another way to get more definitions of what I am supposed to do and such. He seemed to like the idea. [...]

November 18th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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Anniverseries

Tomorrow is Master and my two year collaring annaversery.
Some other important dates (mostly so I’ll remember them, I couldn’t remember what day our annaversery was without looking at this):
Day we first started talking: January 10th, 2005 (he sent me porn)
Day we first had sex (online): January 23rd, 2005 (so hot)
Day we met face-to-face: July 28th, [...]

November 18th, 2007 by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
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