Sickeningly Sweet (HNT)

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These were taken less than an hour before we all went to the airport last time she was here. A lot has happened since.

three-way kiss

I think her latest post sums up quite a lot, and captures the excitement and fear we all are feeling for different reasons on her moving here. She will be here on Saturday the 4th indefinitely.

three-way kiss

She is making a wonderful sacrifice for us, leaving her family, friends, and life behind to come up here to Seattle to be with us, to start a new life. It’s not going to be easy, and we’re all apprehensive about what lies ahead while also being extremely excited to be together.

three-way kiss

I love them both so amazingly much. Every day brings her closer to us, and every day brings us all closer together in one way or another. We are all realizing past mistakes and committed to correcting them. We are dedicated and committed to each other, and that will get us farther than many.

The thing I’ve heard most from people when telling them about our relationship dynamic is that triads aren’t easy. This is undoubtedly true, though no relationship worth having is going to be easy. Throw in the fact that one partner has been thousands of miles away for the last six months and that just makes it that much more complicated. It hasn’t been easy, but it’s definitely been worth it.

As we creep closer to that wonderful moment when we will all be together again my excitement builds far faster than my fear. I know everything will work out, we’ve been through so much already that we know how committed we all are to the other. Living together will create new unique challenges and issues to work through but we will get through them together and be stronger because of it.

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  1. Sleeping Dreamer says:

    Well, I hope it works out! My fingers are crossed that she arrives safely and quickly and I’m excited to see the photos from when you all are together again!

    Co what makes you happy, even if it’s hard. The things worth having are usually things you have to work for!
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  2. carnivalesq says:

    I love these images, and I wish you guys the best of luck. :D

    You’re all adorable!! :D
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  3. Coy Pink says:

    “As we creep closer to that wonderful moment when we will all be together again my excitement builds far faster than my fear.”

    I LOVE that line.

    Your pictures are adorable and make me smile when I see them. I am so excited for your love to be joining you and Onyx!
    Coy Pink´s last blog ..HNT – Evil My ComLuv Profile

  4. Kyle says:

    I’m really excited for you three. Yeah, it’s going to be challenging, difficult all that.. but also rewarding, wonderful, loving. I don’t know Marla, but what I know of you and Onyx leads me to believe you can make this work, and work well.

    best of love to all of you and Happy HNT
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  5. April says:

    Well it’s been 3 days……are you guys still alive or have you all fucked yourselves to death? hahaha!

    Seriously, I’m so happy for you. The 3 of you look so happy. I hope it all works out perfectly.
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