The other night Onyx and I went out swing dancing with Sinclair and Kristin at the most awesome Century Ballroom here in Seattle. Sinclair and Kristin have done lots of swing dancing, I’ve done a small amount many many years ago but have done a fair amount of dancing in general, and Onyx had never [...]
Now that I am somewhat outside of the relationships that have consumed me and took over my life for the last eight or so months I find myself getting more in touch with my needs. I am glad to have so much alone time and time to focus on me as me rather than me [...]
Taken by me winter of 2007 Everything is worse in the single digit hours when she should be sleeping but her brain won’t turn off. She instead reminds herself of how frost crystals can look like diamonds shining in streetlights and marvels at how many stars she can see when there are no lights. She [...]
From someecards. I tend to live in my head more than anywhere else, which can make it difficult to meet new people. I obsess over making good impressions so I often don’t say much when meeting someone for the first time and end up coming off either as shy or disinterested (and I think the [...]
Here is another identity that has come quite a long way in the last few months: Dominus and I have had issues with our relationship because of my newfound Domina identity, and especially with my lack of outlet for it. It’s difficult to embrace an identity when you have no one to explore it with, [...]
Some of you may not know, but I am currently on vacation, or “holiday” as they say over where I last was. We were in England for five days, Stansted for a day and then Brighton, which was where we met Kat and glen. Brighton was amazing. Now we are in Norway, Stavanger specifically, which [...]
A fast-write to help me with my paper, and to entertain you all, of course. How is it empowering to be a female submissive in a heterosexual relationship? That’s the question, really, and sometimes I’m not sure how to answer it. Although I feel empowered within my relationship, in many ways, it’s also a question [...]
I’ve been kind of bereft of things to say lately. Not that there aren’t things happening, but perhaps because there is too much happening and I can’t formulate all my words for it. Not a lot on the BDSM front has been happening, really, we’re just plugging along. Master has gotten kind of lax on [...]
From What’s love got to do with it? by cunt: “What will happen is that I’ll end up with a case of the “wifies”. Girlfriend syndrome, I’ve heard it called. A time when expectations dip into romance and tenderness, when I begin to think I deserve to be treated more as an equal than a [...]
Had cupcakes from @cupcakeroyale for breakfast and soon will have some from @trophycupcakes for dessert,it has been a good birthday by proxy [ScarletLotus]
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Had an amazingly wonderful day with @virgolotus [ScarletLotus]
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Cupcakes for breakfast with @virgolotus (and a mint chocolate mocha)! http://twitpic.com/219c6n [ScarletLotus]
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Shared ScarletLotus: http://twitpic.com/219c6n Cupcakes for breakfast with @virgolotus (and a mint chocolate mocha)!.
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Hooray! I'm excited too!!! RT @virgolotus: Going to Seattle tonight! Yay! So excited! [ScarletLotus]
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