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Fall seems to be the time for starting new projects–there have been A LOT of blogiversaries in the last month plus–and generally of taking stock of one’s life. Perhaps this is because we are coming inside from the crazyness that is summer and all the fun that goes along with that and need to focus [...]
Part of my trip to NYC and Washington D.C., continued from The Beginning: New York City. There will be more posts after this as well. Somehow (after going the wrong way) I made it to the Bolt Bus with my stuff with about 15 minutes to spare before the bus was supposed to be there. [...]
Currently updating from “History of Written Erotica on the Internet” (third session) by Jack Stratton. I woke up later than planned after a long night last night, but that’s something else to talk about entirely. Basically I woke up when the keynote was happening and was going to get food during the first session although [...]
Cross-posted on The Femme’s Guide here. Femme–an identity that has caused controversy, celebration and ridicule–is now the topic of a two-volume set from Homofactus Press and editor Jennifer Clare Burke titled Visible: A Femmethology. Femmethology calls the LGBTQI community on its own prejudice and celebrates the diversity of individual femmes. Award-winning authors, spoken-word artists, and [...]
I just put up a new site layout on The Femme’s Guide today, which I’m actually pretty excited about! It’s similar to the previous layout while also being different enough to be a change. The image on the left on The Femme’s Guide changes when the page is refreshed. Currently there are six different images [...]
The more I look back over the comments on this post, you know the one, the one I wrote about already, the more I think I reacted poorly. And, well, I’m sure I did, as all my reactions were emotional reactions, either a “ouch I’m hurt” reaction or a “I offended you, I’m bad, I’m [...]
Obviously sex toys have become a big part of my life. I think about them at least weekly when I round-up reviews for Pleasurists though usually more because I do my own reviews too, and just recently Domina Doll and I compiled the Best Sex Toy Reviewers 2008 list. This has sparked a bit of [...]
The contents of my Kinky Christmas Stocking from FetLife! Click for larger version. Near the end of last month I posted about the wonderful kinky networking site FetLife giving away 40 amazing Kinky Christmas Stockings. Since I am a FetLife Greeter I was lucky enough to receive a Kinky Christmas Stocking of my very own [...]
If you follow me on twitter you already know this, but, I have officially moved to Seattle. The last couple weeks have been crazyinsane trying to get everything together for moving and such. It’s been wonderful, but busy busy busy. Exciting but stressful. But more than worth it. The apartment we have is about four [...]
Had cupcakes from @cupcakeroyale for breakfast and soon will have some from @trophycupcakes for dessert,it has been a good birthday by proxy [ScarletLotus]
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Had an amazingly wonderful day with @virgolotus [ScarletLotus]
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Cupcakes for breakfast with @virgolotus (and a mint chocolate mocha)! http://twitpic.com/219c6n [ScarletLotus]
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Shared ScarletLotus: http://twitpic.com/219c6n Cupcakes for breakfast with @virgolotus (and a mint chocolate mocha)!.
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Hooray! I'm excited too!!! RT @virgolotus: Going to Seattle tonight! Yay! So excited! [ScarletLotus]
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