http://femmefagette.com/2009/11/22/in-the-middle/ A multigendered fat queer poly switch exploring gender, sexuality, and the pitfalls of an overanalytical nature Wed, 20 Jan 2010 10:16:51 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 http://femmefagette.com/2009/11/22/in-the-middle/comment-page-1/#comment-1944 Sexorcism Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:55:02 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=3448#comment-1944 It sounds like a step back from the situation is in order. Maybe you could maintain friendly relations with both for a while without engaging in sexual activities. .-= Sexorcism´s last blog ..<a href="http://sexorcism.blogspot.com/2009/11/birds-n-bees-condoms.html" rel="nofollow">Birds 'N Bees Condoms</a> =-. It sounds like a step back from the situation is in order. Maybe you could maintain friendly relations with both for a while without engaging in sexual activities.
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]]> http://femmefagette.com/2009/11/22/in-the-middle/comment-page-1/#comment-1942 Kathryn Mon, 23 Nov 2009 09:38:41 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=3448#comment-1942 I am so glad you are trying to put your needs first and I know how hard that is when you're see their tweets and still talk to them both. You are a smart girl ScarletLotus do what is best for you it isn't selfish it is necessary and if it's meant to be with either of them it will be. Pain is part of the birth and growth process it is never easy or comfortable but we live through it if we choose to. I am sure you will choose life whether they do is up to them. both my ex husbands chose misery and their lives show it....I thought I would die from the emotional pain but pushed through each day to wellness and wholeness and have had a wonderful 19 yrs healing, learning and growing. I pray for each of you everyday as I check my twitter. Bless you and yours I am so glad you are trying to put your needs first and I know how hard that is when you’re see their tweets and still talk to them both. You are a smart girl ScarletLotus do what is best for you it isn’t selfish it is necessary and if it’s meant to be with either of them it will be. Pain is part of the birth and growth process it is never easy or comfortable but we live through it if we choose to. I am sure you will choose life whether they do is up to them. both my ex husbands chose misery and their lives show it….I thought I would die from the emotional pain but pushed through each day to wellness and wholeness and have had a wonderful 19 yrs healing, learning and growing. I pray for each of you everyday as I check my twitter. Bless you and yours

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