Comments on: My First Public Play Experience http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/ A multigendered fat queer poly switch exploring gender, sexuality, and the pitfalls of an overanalytical nature Tue, 06 Jul 2010 21:03:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Femme Fagette | In the Year 2008 http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-397 Femme Fagette | In the Year 2008 Sun, 17 May 2009 06:16:43 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-397 [...] We got a little more involved in the kink community here in SLC and went to our first play party. [...] [...] We got a little more involved in the kink community here in SLC and went to our first play party. [...]

]]> By: The Femmeinist Fucktoy » In the Year 2008 http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-387 The Femmeinist Fucktoy » In the Year 2008 Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:18:00 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-387 [...] We got a little more involved in the kink community here in SLC and went to our first play party. [...] [...] We got a little more involved in the kink community here in SLC and went to our first play party. [...]

]]> By: The Femmeinist Fucktoy » August in a Glance http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-396 The Femmeinist Fucktoy » August in a Glance Thu, 04 Sep 2008 07:19:02 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-396 [...] August I was lucky enough to attend my second play party so, of course, I had to tell you all about that experience and then show you some of the consequences of being flogged and caned as I [...] [...] August I was lucky enough to attend my second play party so, of course, I had to tell you all about that experience and then show you some of the consequences of being flogged and caned as I [...]

]]> By: Kinky Sex Link » Blog Archive » It’s Just Breath Control http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-395 Kinky Sex Link » Blog Archive » It’s Just Breath Control Thu, 28 Aug 2008 00:43:13 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-395 [...] post comes to you by request of the sweet, lovely, and brilliant Elizabeth, she asked me about the allure of breath play, what I [...] [...] post comes to you by request of the sweet, lovely, and brilliant Elizabeth, she asked me about the allure of breath play, what I [...]

]]> By: It’s Just Breath Control | The Femmeinist Fucktoy http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-391 It’s Just Breath Control | The Femmeinist Fucktoy Sat, 16 Aug 2008 04:46:57 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-391 [...] post comes to you by request of the sweet, lovely, and brilliant Elizabeth (I may have a bit of a crush, shhhh… and [...] [...] post comes to you by request of the sweet, lovely, and brilliant Elizabeth (I may have a bit of a crush, shhhh… and [...]

]]> By: Caned and Bruised Half Naked Thursday « http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-392 Caned and Bruised Half Naked Thursday « Thu, 07 Aug 2008 22:57:53 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-392 [...] with another post of mine. I just yesterday published my recap of the weekend play party and my first public play experience, so I figured showing you all the pictures taken after that experience would fit right along [...] [...] with another post of mine. I just yesterday published my recap of the weekend play party and my first public play experience, so I figured showing you all the pictures taken after that experience would fit right along [...]

]]> By: Caned and Bruised, Never Satisfied | The Femmeinist Fucktoy http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-390 Caned and Bruised, Never Satisfied | The Femmeinist Fucktoy Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:19:45 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-390 [...] My First Public Play Experience [...] [...] My First Public Play Experience [...]

]]> By: Scarlet Lotus St. Syr http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-389 Scarlet Lotus St. Syr Thu, 07 Aug 2008 05:16:38 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-389 @<a href="#comment-1236" rel="nofollow">Elizabeth</a>: Thanks! It was really awesome. Good luck with your first play party, the best part of them, for me, is just the completely casual and accepting atmosphere (at least that's what I found here). I hope you two have a great time! I can definitely see how asthma would make breath play more than a little undesirable. I did do an episode of <a href="http://sacredsexcast.org" rel="nofollow">the sexcast</a> about it, <a href="http://sacredsexcast.org/archives/episode-5-erotic-asphyxiationbreath-play/" rel="nofollow">over here</a>. That elusive podcast that I really need to do more with... Other than that, I'd be happy to write a post on it, and will put that in the queue of posts to write, maybe getting it out in the next few days. I'm a big fan of breath play, and it's something I've been thinking a lot about lately, so it's about time I made a nice thoughtful post about it. @Elizabeth: Thanks! It was really awesome. Good luck with your first play party, the best part of them, for me, is just the completely casual and accepting atmosphere (at least that’s what I found here). I hope you two have a great time!

I can definitely see how asthma would make breath play more than a little undesirable. I did do an episode of the sexcast about it, over here. That elusive podcast that I really need to do more with… Other than that, I’d be happy to write a post on it, and will put that in the queue of posts to write, maybe getting it out in the next few days. I’m a big fan of breath play, and it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately, so it’s about time I made a nice thoughtful post about it.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-388 Elizabeth Thu, 07 Aug 2008 03:53:57 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-388 Oh wow, that sounds awesome! What a great time and a great story. Gabe and I have our first play party Aug 16th, so we're getting so very excited! I appreciate the observations you shared about breath play. I have asthma, and not only is it a bad idea, the sensation of not being able to breathe simply isn't erotic to me. So I'm sort of... separate from the entity of breath play, and very curious. Could you say more (or point me to a post) about the allure? Oh wow, that sounds awesome! What a great time and a great story. Gabe and I have our first play party Aug 16th, so we’re getting so very excited!

I appreciate the observations you shared about breath play. I have asthma, and not only is it a bad idea, the sensation of not being able to breathe simply isn’t erotic to me. So I’m sort of… separate from the entity of breath play, and very curious. Could you say more (or point me to a post) about the allure?

]]> By: Scarlet Lotus St. Syr http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-394 Scarlet Lotus St. Syr Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:00:47 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-394 @<a href="#comment-1231" rel="nofollow">PantheraPardus</a>: It really really was! I was really happy with the way it turned out, and with the few bruises I now have (and it takes a lot to bruise my butt, I've got buns of steel!). I stayed away from play parties for a long time due to nervousness and my general apathy toward meeting new people, but I really do highly recommend them now. I think they are fabulous, and I too hope that your first time playing at one is as good (or better) than mine! @PantheraPardus: It really really was! I was really happy with the way it turned out, and with the few bruises I now have (and it takes a lot to bruise my butt, I’ve got buns of steel!). I stayed away from play parties for a long time due to nervousness and my general apathy toward meeting new people, but I really do highly recommend them now. I think they are fabulous, and I too hope that your first time playing at one is as good (or better) than mine!

]]> By: PantheraPardus http://femmefagette.com/2008/08/06/my-first-public-play-experience/comment-page-1/#comment-393 PantheraPardus Thu, 07 Aug 2008 00:28:08 +0000 http://femmefagette.com/?p=238#comment-393 Now _that_ sounds like a fun time, and seems like it was an ideal first public experience. I have yet to go to a playparty, and I just hope my first time is as good as yours. Now _that_ sounds like a fun time, and seems like it was an ideal first public experience. I have yet to go to a playparty, and I just hope my first time is as good as yours.

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